while i can't tell you exactly what i was doing at this exact time last year, i can say with utmost sincerity that i was miserable. see, this time last year was the week after i broke up with the only guy i ever truly loved after a long string of miscommunications led to some untoward activity and we made a clean break. and i was miserable for weeks. then upset for a month or more longer. then just mildly unhappy for a while longer. it took me awhile to come out of this funk, but out of it i came, with the help of many of my friends.
i'll spare you the details but suffice it to say, it took me a good long time to find my happiness again. but when i did, a whole new world opened up and i was finally able to enjoy who i was again. what a feeling to be content with myself and comfortable with being single.
and then, after all that, i got back together again with the aforementioned man of my life. and i have truly never been happier. i've learned how to be happy on my own, take that happiness and create something even better and bigger.
so technically, i guess i really shouldn't be allowed to post on this single girl blog. because of the obvious fact that i'm not really single. but i am in a long-distance relationship, which is about the closest one can be to single and still be with someone. i still spend the majority of my time alone or with friends or with my cat. such is the life of the pseudo-single girl.
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oh what a difference a year makes. you really are happier than i've ever seen you!
as evidenced by the fact that you havne't actually killed kenny yet. that is a sign of the kind of unending patience htat only comes from being in love. (and is also the reason ang still likes me. thank god you people are in love)
hello. so i was sitting here with "nothing to do" because we don't have school tomorrow. i wanted to check out all the procrastinating sites i used to check out back when i was in college. after reading all my emails, checking on my bank account and credit card i remembered that abbey was saying that she posted something on ang's blog. so here i am, reading all the new entries since the last time i was here. glad to hear that things are going ok - or better for others.
ooh, 8 mile just came on tv, so i'm gonna go waste more time on crappy movies. i will surely try to check in on a more regular basis. i enjoy keeping up on what's going on with people.
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